Forgiveness is a powerful spiritual key that frees the heart long before the offender admits their fault.
Joseph demonstrated this truth when he faced the very brothers who had sold him.
Instead of reminding them of their betrayal or demanding an apology, he chose peace.
His words revealed a heart already healed: “Don’t be afraid… You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good.”(Genesis 50:19-20)
Joseph had forgiven them long before they stood before him.
Forgiving without waiting does not excuse evil, but it prevents evil from controlling our hearts. When we wait for apologies, explanations, or justice before we forgive, we give power to the wound. But when we forgive immediately, we reclaim our peace.
God calls us to this freedom: “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Forgiveness lifts bitterness, breaks the cycle of revenge, and opens the way for healing. Whether the person recognizes their error or not, forgiveness allows you to walk forward without chains.
PRAYER:
Lord, give me the strength to forgive without waiting for apologies. Heal my heart, fill me with Your peace, and free me from bitterness. Amen.
Apostle Dr Jean-Claude SINDAYIGAYA