Many times, people feel guilty when they say “No.”
They rush to explain, to justify, or to apologize—because they fear disappointing others.
But in the light of God’s Word, we see that saying “No” can actually be an act of obedience, wisdom, and protection of our spiritual walk.
1. JESUS HIMSELF SAID “NO.”
When Satan tempted Jesus in the wilderness, Jesus did not negotiate or soften His response. He simply said:
“It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’”(Luke 4:8)
That was a firm No—with no need for excuses.
He didn’t explain Himself to Satan; He stood on God’s truth.
2. LET YOUR YES BE YES, AND YOUR NO BE NO
Jesus taught:
“All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” (Matthew 5:37)
This means a child of God is not bound to endless explanations.
A clear “No” can carry the weight of integrity and obedience to God.
3. THE POWER OF BOUNDARIES
Joseph, when tempted by Potiphar’s wife, said:
“How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?”(Genesis 39:9)
Joseph’s “No” preserved his destiny.
Sometimes, your No is not just for today—it safeguards your tomorrow.
4. SAYING NO TO SIN IS SAYING YES TO GOD
Titus 2:11-12 reminds us:
“For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age.”
A Christian life is shaped not only by what we accept, but also by what we refuse.
Every faithful “No” strengthens your walk with Christ.
Saying No is not rude, it is not unloving—it is sometimes the holiest word you can speak.
A clean, firm No honors God, guards your heart, and sets you free from people-pleasing.
PRAYER:
Eternal our Lord, give us the courage to say NO where we need to, and the wisdom to say YES where You lead us.
Let our words be rooted in Your truth, not in the fear of people.
It is in the powerful name of Jesus Christ that we pray, Amen.
Apostle Dr Jean-Claude SINDAYIGAYA