There are mistakes we regret… and others we mourn for a lifetime.
Some errors leave behind wounds that no word can erase — a broken life, a disability, a wounded soul. In such cases, simple apologies are no longer enough — what is needed is deep forgiveness, a cry from the heart lifted to God and to those we have hurt.
The Bible says:
“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”(Romans 12:18)
This means that peace is prepared before evil happens, through prudence and vigilance.
It is wiser to avoid causing harm than to try to repair the irreparable.
For a word spoken without reflection, or an act done without love, can destroy what God has built.
“Things that cause people to stumble are bound to come, but woe to anyone through whom they come.”(Luke 17:1)
When the harm is already done, we must have the courage to acknowledge our fault, to ask for forgiveness sincerely, and to make things right as much as we can.
But we must also cry out to God, for only His divine forgiveness can heal a torn conscience.
Like David, we must say:
“Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.”(Psalm 51:10)
Forgiveness then becomes a cry of the soul seeking peace.
And may this painful experience teach us to be more careful, more gentle, and more attentive, for true love means striving never to wound another.
PRAYER:
Lord, forgive me for the harm I have caused.
Cleanse my heart and heal those I have hurt.
Give me the wisdom to be careful and to no longer wound through my words or actions.
Make me an instrument of peace.
In Jesus Christ’s name,
Amen.
Apostle Dr. Jean-Claude SINDAYIGAYA
Witness of the grace that restores