JINSI YA KUKABILIANA NA WATU FEKI

Unapojikuta katika hali ambayo huwezi kuwaepuka watu hawa wabaya, hapa kuna hila ambazo unaweza kukabiliana nazo:

① Kaa mbali nao:
Njia bora ya kuepuka matokeo ya urafiki bandia ni kujaribu kujiweka mbali na watu wa aina hii.
« Jihadharini, kila mtu na jirani yake… »(Yeremia 9:4)

② Punguza uhusiano:
Ikiwa uko katika hali ambayo huwezi kuwaweka kando watu hawa bandia, ni muhimu kujaribu kupunguza kiwango cha uaminifu ambacho urafiki au uhusiano wako unaweza kuwa nao.
« … msimtumaini ndugu awaye yote. »(Yeremia 9:4)

③ Usiiname kwa kiwango chao:
Watu wanafiki siku zote hujaribu kuwashusha wengine kwenye kiwango chao. Iwe ni kuwakosoa wengine au mitazamo fulani yenye sumu, watatafuta wengine kufanya sawa na wao.
“Usiige ubaya, bali uige wema.”(3 Yohana 1:11)

④ Waelekeze kasoro hii:
Wakati yote mengine yameshindikana kwako, njia nzuri ya kujaribu kumzuia mtu bandia ni kuonyesha tabia yake mbaya.
« Na ndugu yako akikukosa, enenda ukamwonye, wewe na yeye peke yenu; akikusikia, umempata nduguyo. »(Mathayo 18:15).

OMBI:
Baba yetu aliye mbinguni, atusaidie tushughulike vizuri na marafiki zetu wa uwongo.
Ni katika jina la thamani la mwanao Yesu Kristo tunaomba, Amina.

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UMUNTU YABANA GUTE N’ABANTU BABI ?

Iyo wisanze ubana n’abantu babi kandi ubona bitoroshye kubirinda, dore amayeri wakoresha kugira uhangane nabo:

① Kwegerwa kure yabo:
Inzira nziza yo kwirinda ingaruka z’ubucuti n’abantu babi n’ukugerageza, kubegerwa kure, ukitandukanya nabo.
« Umuntu wese muri mwe ajye yirinda umuturanyi we… »(Yeremiya 9:4)

② Kugabanya umubano:
Niba udashobora gushyira abo bantu babi kuruhande, ni ngombwa kugerageza kugabanya urwego rw’icyizere ubucuti bwawe cyangwa umubano wawe byari bigezeho.
« … kandi ntimukiringire uwo muva inda imwe kuko abavandimwe bazahemukirana rwose. »(Yeremiya 9:4)

③ Ntukabigane ngo witware nkabo:
Abantu babi buri gihe bagerageza kumanura abandi kurwego rwabo. Yaba ari ukunegura abandi cyangwa indi myifatire mibi, bahora bashaka ko abandi babikora nkabo.
« Ntukīgane ikibi ahubwo wīgane icyiza. »(3 Yohana 1:11)

④ Kumwereka inenge ye:
Mu gihe ibindi byose byakunaniye, inzira nziza yo kugerageza guhagarika umuntu mubi, n’ukumwereka imyitwarire ye mibi.
« Mwene so nakugirira nabi, ugende umumenyeshe icyaha cye mwiherereye, nakumvira uzaba ubonye mwene so. »(Matayo 18:15)

ISENGESHO:
Data wa twese uri mu ijuru, udufashe guhangana n’inshuti mbi.
Ni mu izina ry’agaciro ry’umwana wawe Yesu kristo tubisabye, Amen.

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UMUNTU YOBANA GUTE N’ABANTU BABI ?

Iyo wisanze ubana n’abantu babi kandi ubona bitoroshe kubirinda, ng’aya amayeri wokoresha kugira uhangane nabo:

① Kubigira kure:
Inzira nziza yo kwirinda ingaruka z’ubucuti n’abantu babi, n’ukugerageza, kubigira kure, ukitandukanya nabo.
« umuntu wese yiyubare umubanyi wiwe… »(Yeremiya 9:4)

② Kugabanya imigenderanire:
Iyo udashobora gushira abo bantu babi kuruhande, ni ngombwa kugerageza kugabanya urwego rw’icizere ubucuti bwawe canke umubano wawe vyari bigezeko.
« … kandi ntihagire uwo muri mwebge yizigira mugenzi we. »(Yeremiya 9:4)

③ Kwirinda kubigana ngo umere nkabo:
Abantu babi buri gihe bagerageza kumanura abandi kurwego rwabo. Kwaba ari ukunegura abandi canke iyindi ngeso mbi, bahora bashaka ko abandi babikora nkabo.
« Ntukigane ikibi, ariko wigane iciza. »(3 Yohana 1:11)

④ Kumwereka inenge yiwe:
Mu gihe ibindi vyose vyakunaniye, inzira nziza yo kugerageza guhagarika umuntu mubi, n’ukumwereka ingeso yiwe mibi.
« Mugenzawe ni yakugirira nabi, ugende umuhishuke mwiherereye; ni yakwumvira, uzoba wigaruriye mugenzawe. »(Matayo 18:15)

IGISABISHO:
Dawe wa twese uri mw’ijuru, dufashe guhangana n’abantu babi.
Ni mw’izina ridasanzwe ry’umwana wawe Yesu kristo tubisavye, Amen.

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FAKE FRIENDS

Do you think someone around you has a hypocritical attitude?
Here are five characteristics to identify fake friends:

① They only respect you out of self-interest:
As long as they take interest in the relationship, they cling to you and respect you. But if there’s no more interest, they don’t respect you anymore.(Read 1 Corinthians 13:5)

② They’re not sincere:
Instead of giving you advice, fake friends criticize and judge you behind your back. They are envious, jealous and deny you when you are the subject of an incident.(Read Romans 12:9)

③ They corrupt your morals:
Not only do they refuse to give you good advice for good conduct, but they also train and encourage you to engage in bad conduct.
(Read 1 Corinthians 15:33)

④ They speak badly of others:
When speaking badly of others becomes a habit, it is a clear sign that we are in front of a fake person who surely also speaks badly of us to others.(Read James 4:11)

⑤ They’re cheating on you:
They often don’t tell you the truth, hide a lot of things from you and torpedo your projects in secret.(Read 1 Thessalonians 5:11)

PRAYER:
Our Father who art in heaven, keep us from fake friends in our lives.
It is in the precious name of your son Jesus Christ that we pray, Amen.

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LES FAUX AMIS

Pensez-vous que quelqu’un de votre entourage a une attitude hypocrite?
Voici cinq caractéristiques pour identifier les faux amis:

① Ils ne vous respectent que par intérêt:
Tant qu’ils tirent intérêt de la relation, ils s’accrochent à vous et vous respectent. Mais s’il n’y a plus d’intérêt, ils ne vous respectent plus.
(Lire 1 Corinthiens 13:5)

② Ils ne sont pas sincères:
Au lieu de vous donner des conseils, les faux amis vous critiquent et vous jugent derrière votre dos. Ils sont envieux, jaloux et vous nient lorsque vous êtes sujet d’un incident.(Lire Romains 12:9)

③ Ils corrompent vos bonnes mœurs:
Non seulement ils refusent de vous donner de bons conseils pour une bonne conduite, mais aussi ils vous entraînent et vous encouragent à adopter une mauvaise conduite.(Lire 1 Corinthiens 15:33)

④ Ils parlent mal des autres:
Lorsque le fait de parler mal des autres devient une habitude, c’est un signe clair que nous sommes devant une fausse personne qui parle sûrement aussi mal de nous aux autres. (Lire Jacques 4:11)

⑤ Ils vous trompent:
Ils ne vous disent pas souvent la vérité, vous cachent beaucoup de choses et torpillent vos projets en cachette.
(Lire 1 Thessaloniciens 5:11)

PRIÈRE:
Notre Père qui êtes aux cieux, évitez-nous de faux amis dans notre vie.
C’est dans le nom précieux de votre fils Jésus-Christ que nous prions, Amen.

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MARAFIKI FEKI

Je, unadhani mtu anayekuzunguka ana tabia ya unafiki?
Hapa kuna sifa tano za kutambua marafiki bandia:

① Wanakuheshimu kwa sababu ya ubinafsi pekee:
Kadiri wanavyopendezwa na uhusiano huo, wanakushikilia na kukuheshimu. Lakini ikiwa hakuna maslahi zaidi, hawakuheshimu tena.
(Soma 1 Wakorintho 13:5)

② Si wanyoofu:
Badala ya kukupa ushauri, marafiki bandia wanakukosoa na kukuhukumu nyuma yako. Wana wivu, na kukukana wakati wewe ni mhusika wa tukio.(Soma Warumi 12:9)

③ Wanaharibu maadili yako:
Sio tu kwamba wanakataa kukupa ushauri mzuri kuhusu mwenendo mzuri, bali pia wanakuzoeza na kukutia moyo ujihusishe na mwenendo mbaya.(Soma 1 Wakorintho 15:33)

④ Wanawasema vibaya wengine:
Wakati kusema vibaya wengine inakuwa tabia, ni ishara wazi kwamba sisi ni mbele ya mtu bandia ambaye kwa hakika pia kutusema vibaya kwa wengine.(Soma Yakobo 4:11)

⑤ Wanakulaghai:
Mara nyingi hawakuambii ukweli, huficha mambo mengi kutoka kwako na kufanya miradi yako kwa siri.
(Soma 1 Wathesalonike 5:11)

OMBI:
Baba yetu uliye mbinguni, utuepushe na marafiki feki katika maisha yetu.
Ni katika jina la thamani la mwanao Yesu Kristo tunaomba, Amina.

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INSHUTI MBI

Uratekereza ko hari umuntu hafi yawe afite imyifatire y’uburyarya?
Dore ibintu bitanu biranga kumenya inshuti mbi:

① Bakubaha gusa kubera inyungu bagushakaho:
Igihe cyose bagushakaho inyugu, bakwizirikaho kandi bakakubaha. Ariko niba nta nyungu zindi, ntibakubaha.(Soma 1 Abakorinto 13:5)

② Ntabwo bafite umurava:
Aho kuguha inama, inshuti mbi zirakuvuga zikunegura kandi zigucira urubanza inyuma yawe. Zifite ishyari kandi zirakwihakana mu gihe uri mu bibazo. (Soma Abaroma 12: 9)

③ Zangiza imico myiza yawe:
Uretse ko zanga kuguha inama nziza ku myitwarire myiza, zinagutoza kandi zikagutera inkunga yo kwishora mu bikorwa bibi.
(Soma 1 Abakorinto 15:33)

④ Zivuga nabi abandi:
Iyo kuvuga nabi abandi bibaye akamenyero, ni ikimenyetso cyerekana ko turi imbere y’umuntu mubi rwose natwe yatuvuga nabi mu bandi.
(Soma Yakobo 4:11)

⑤ Ziragushuka:
Akenshi ntizikubwiza ukuri, ziguhisha ibintu byinshi kandi zikakwicira imigambi yawe mu buryo rwihishwa.
(Soma 1 Abatesalonike 5:11)

ISENGESHO:
Data wa twese uri mu ijuru, uturinde inshuti mbi mu buzima bwacu.
Ni mu izina ry’agaciro ry’umwana wawe Yesu kristo tubisabye, Amen.

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ABAGENZI BABI

Woba wibaza ko hafi yawe hoba hari umuntu afise inyifato y’uburyarya?
Ng’ibi ibintu bitanu bigufasha kumenya abagenzi babi:

① Bakwubaha gusa kubera ico bagushakako:
Igihe cose bagushakaho ikintu, ntibakuva inyuma kandi barakwubaha. Ariko iyo ata nyungu bakikuronkako, ntibasubira kukwubaha.
(Soma 1 Ab’iKorinto 13:5)

② N’indyarya:
Aho kuguhanura, abagenzi barakuvuga bakakunegura kandi bagucira urubanza inyuma yawe. Zifise ishari kandi barakwihakana mu gihe uri mu bibazo.(Soma Abaroma 12: 9)

③ Bakwononera imico myiza yawe:
Uretse ko banka kuguha impanuro nziza ku myitwarire myiza, banakwigisha kandi bakagufasha kwinjira mu bintu bibi.
(Soma 1 Ab’iKorinto 15:33)

④ Bavuga nabi abandi:
Iyo kuvuga nabi abandi bibaye akamenyero, ni ikimenyetso cerekana ko turi imbere y’umuntu mubi kandi natwe atuvuga nabi mu bandi.
(Soma Yakobo 4:11)

⑤ Barakubesha:
Akenshi ntibakubwiza ukuri, baguhisha ibintu vyinshi kandi bakakwicira imigambi yawe bakwihishako.
(Soma 1 Abatesalonika 5:11)

IGISABISHO:
Dawe wa twese uri mw’ijuru, turinde abagenzi babi mu buzima bwacu.
Ni mw’izina ridasanzwe ry’umwana wawe Yesu kristo tubisavye, Amen.

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A TRUE FRIEND

Jonathan and David are a good example of friendship.

« Jonathan made David swear again by his love for him, for he loved him as he loved his own soul. »(1 Samuel 20:17)

Here are five signs of a true friend:
① He shows you unconditional love and expect nothing in return,
② He respects you and won’t let anyone to disrespect you,
③ He may not judge you or think less of you, but he calls you out when you are wrong,
④ He is always there for you, and will likely always have your back and support you through thick and thin,
⑤ He helps you to focus on your goals, to stay motivated, and to be creative.

May God give us good friends who can love us as they love their own soul.

PRAYER:
Our Father who art in heaven, help us to find good friends.
It is in the precious name of your son Jesus Christ that we pray, Amen.

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UN VRAI AMI

Jonathan et David sont un bon exemple d’amitié.

« Jonathan protesta encore auprès de David de son affection pour lui, car il l’aimait comme son âme. »(1 Samuel 20:17)

Voici cinq signes d’un véritable ami:
① Il vous montre un amour inconditionnel et n’attend rien en retour,
② Il vous respecte et ne laissera personne vous manquer de respect,
③ Il ne vous juge peut-être pas, mais il vous interpelle quand vous vous trompez,
④ Il est toujours là pour vous, et sera toujours à vos côtés et vous soutiendra contre vents et marées,
⑤ Il vous aide à vous concentrer sur vos objectifs, à rester motivé et à être créatif.

Que Dieu nous donne de bons amis qui peuvent nous aimer comme ils aiment leur propre âme.

PRIÈRE:
Notre Père qui êtes aux cieux, aidez-nous à trouver de bons amis.
C’est dans le nom précieux de votre fils Jésus-Christ que nous prions, Amen.

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